{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Counselling Explained","provider_url":"https:\/\/bcmen.thedev.ca","author_name":"Michael Gintowt","author_url":"https:\/\/bcmen.thedev.ca\/index.php\/author\/michael\/","title":"Do I Need Counselling? - Counselling Explained","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"Tz83XOnUTr\"><a href=\"https:\/\/bcmen.thedev.ca\/index.php\/2022\/02\/25\/do-i-need-counselling\/\">Do I Need Counselling?<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/bcmen.thedev.ca\/index.php\/2022\/02\/25\/do-i-need-counselling\/embed\/#?secret=Tz83XOnUTr\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;Do I Need Counselling?&#8221; &#8212; Counselling Explained\" data-secret=\"Tz83XOnUTr\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script>\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/\/# sourceURL=https:\/\/bcmen.thedev.ca\/wp-includes\/js\/wp-embed.min.js\n<\/script>\n","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/bcmen.thedev.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/counselling-3.png","thumbnail_width":940,"thumbnail_height":788,"description":"Do I need counselling? I hear that a lot. We, especially men, are deeply conditioned to \u201csuck it up\u201d, and \u201cdeal with it\u201d. To seek counselling still has some of that outdated notion that it means \u201cI am weak\u201d or worse, \u201cI am crazy\u201d. Those ideas originate in the bad old days of ignorant patriarchal [&hellip;]"}